for a year, so were anxious to spend as much time with them as possible. We
especially looked forward to seeing our grandchildren, 9 year old
Christopher and 3 year old Allison. Just a couple of days after we arrived I
got a chance to babysit without grandma being there. I walked in and Allison
looked at me and said, "Where's Grandma?" I mean, I expected a "Hi Grandpa"
at least, but no, just, "Where's Grandma?" That kind of let me know how
high I rated on the grandparent scale. We had a good time playing with one
another later, but the thought stayed with me that I'm not as important or
necessary as I might have thought I was!
The Apostle Paul writes in Romans 12:3, "Because of the privilege and
authority God has given me, I give each of you this warning: Don't think you
are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves,
measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us." (NLT)
Paul goes on and says that we need to be aware that each of us has a place,
a talent or a gift given to us by God. Because of that we need to understand
that we are different from other people. That doesn't make us more or less
important, just different.
Paul then reminds us in Romans 12:9-10, "Don't just pretend to love others.
Really love them. Hate what is wrong. Hold tightly to what is good. Love
each other with genuine affection, and take delight in honoring each other."
Now, grandma and I don't have a problem "really loving" each other. We
understand that that we have different gifts and abilities and we understand
that we relate to some folks differently. How about you? Are there those you
envy or maybe even have bad feeling towards because they can do something
you can't or maybe someone relates better to them than you?
Maybe it's time just to accept the fact that we are all different, all
unique, not better or worse, not more important or less important. We are
all equally loved and important to God and that's what really counts.
Russ Lawson