We are God's family and should not allow anything or anyone to disturb, disrupt or wound this family on our journey home. We have a common love for each, a common bond that holds us together with a common hope that will one day bring us the greatest victory imaginable. We should be, yea must be, knit together in peace and oneness of mind. Let me very briefly introduce you to a family that must never be allowed to become a part of our family because if allowed to do so, they will destroy our love for each other and sever that common bond that holds us together. That family is the Tator family.
First I would have you meet Agi--Tator. Agi thrives on contention and strife. He is not satisfied with peace so he likes to gossip, repeat rumors and stir up trouble. Agi can break up the family and shatter all hopes and dreams for growth. Paul has some good instructions for Agi in Ephesians 4:1-3; 25-32.
Next meet his twin Devas--Tator. Devas is alway busy tearing down, never trying to build up and will attempt to lead people away with high sounding words. Reminds me of Korah whom we read about in Numbers 16 as well as Jude 11. Be wary of Devas because he can tear down in a short time what has taken years to build.
Then there is old Lamen--Tator. Lamen is always depressed and mourning. He suffers more that anybody else and his lot in life is just absolutely terrible. Lamen is a pitiful man because he sees no one else but himself. Reminds me of that elder brother in the parable of the prodigal son (Luke 15) as well as the Israelites (1 Cor. 10:6-10).
And then we come face to face with Dic--Tator. Old Dic wants to rule the roast or else. He doesn't care what God says or anyone else because he is the leader, the most important so you do it his way or leave. Reminds me of Diathropes in 3 John 9.
Lastly we meet Commen--Tator. Commen is full of advice and comments. Just ask him about anything because he knows the answer. But he is long on talk and short on doing. He can find a thousand things for others to do but can't seem to find anything he can do. It is always "they" or "them", never "I" or "we". He is always criticizing long and loud because he is a "mote hunter" (Matt.7:3-5). Commen reminds me a lot of the Pharisees who would "say and do not" (Matt.23:3).
I pray that we will always do as Paul instructs in Eph. 4:2: "Endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace".
Charles Hicks